Do men always have great sex? What about Women? What/who determines great sex?
That is the subject matter of this weeks topic. I would like to advise readers that this blog entry carries a mature rating classification. That is right kids... this post was brought to you by the letter M and the numbers 6 and 9.
If you wish to read this (and seriously, don't just click here if you are related so anyone I have slept with... not saying, just saying...) then you must never EVER talk to me about this subject. Ever. That is the condition of you clicking the link below.
Ok, so now we have got the disclaimer out of the way I want to tell you that this isn't going to get really juicy (ahem) but when you are told that your GF's younger teenage brother reads the blog... well... yeah, I know... way to go Will, you just made him WANT to read this post even more... bygones...
So, back to answering the question. If I'm going to base it totally on today's experience then I have to admit it is fantastic... ahem... anyway... (just had to confirm Silk's suspicions)
Do we? Do we have great sex? Men often feel the need to ask, 'was it good for you?" afterwards. Either that or they can't hear out of one ear because they went a little deaf in which case you'd like to think that they have the answer. Can't always be too sure though, right? Not with the way some of these women lie. [pun intended]
There are many factors that determine great sex from the wooing and romance to the deed found on the mission field done in adventurous places. Sometimes it is just a jamba-whamba or sometimes it is a case of oompa-loompa. All these possibilities floating out there I need to try and break down key elements:
1. You need two people. At least.
2. You need to get that mood.
3. Biting.
4. Walls to be thrown against. (Not advised if one of you are pregnant...)
5. Candles. Wax. Ice-cubes.
But these will still only give you good sex, enjoyable sex... just not great sex. For great sex you need... love.
Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic these days (now there's a change, eh?) but I'm serious - that is what makes the difference.
Can a couple always have great sex? Probably not every time and that is what the keyword is here folks. It isn't the 'how good' or the 'how often' but rather 'always' ratio.
Every time one does the wild monkey dance could be good or very enjoyable but maybe not always stunning
and mind-blowing. But if you never compare one time to another and
just appreciate the moment as this intense act of love, passion and
companionship then every time will be special and awesome and that, I
think, is what really counts.
Phoenix, Kathy, Silk and Sadie give their take from the Pink corner. The Air Marshal was bravely holding up the blue corner with the Drunken Dude until I remembered what day of the week it was and climbed out from under the covers. Phin should be bopping his thoughts down a little later. And finally, with great pleasure (in all great sex terms) Chrissy's done wonders on last week's topic so read for the conclusion you have been waiting for!
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